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Is Anxiety Keeping You Awake at Night? Tips to calm your mind and get a good night's rest.

Updated: Mar 24, 2023

Many people struggle with anxiety, and it can have a significant impact on their ability to fall and stay asleep. Anxiety can cause racing thoughts, increased heart rate and muscle tension, and other issues that can make it challenging to get a good night's rest. Fortunately, there are many tools and techniques available to help manage anxiety and improve sleep quality. In addition to mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing and journaling, body scans and thought stopping can be effective strategies for reducing anxiety and promoting relaxation. By incorporating these techniques into your daily routine, you can improve your ability to relax and get a good night's rest, which can have a positive impact on your overall health and well-being

What is Anxiety?

Anxiety is a common mental health condition that affects millions of people around the world. It is characterized by feelings of worry, fear, and unease that can be intense and persistent. Anxiety can be a normal response to a stressful situation, but it can also be a chronic condition that affects a person's overall well-being.

Symptoms of anxiety can vary from person to person, but often include emotional symptoms such as constant worrying, restlessness, and irritability, as well as cognitive symptoms such as racing thoughts, difficulty concentrating, and negative self-talk. Anxiety can also cause physical symptoms such as increased heart rate, sweating, and muscle tension

How Does Anxiety Affect Sleep?

Anxiety can have a significant impact on sleep. People who experience anxiety often have difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep. Anxiety can cause racing thoughts, making it difficult to quiet the mind and fall asleep. Additionally, anxiety can cause physical symptoms, such as increased heart rate, sweating, and muscle tension, that can make it difficult to relax and fall asleep.

Anxiety can also cause people to wake up frequently during the night or wake up early in the morning and have trouble falling back to sleep. This can lead to feeling fatigued during the day, which can further exacerbate anxiety symptoms.

What You Can Do to Improve Your Sleep when Dealing with Anxiety

There are several techniques that can be effective for relaxing and reducing anxiety before bed. It

can be helpful to establish a relaxing bedtime routine, such as taking a warm bath, practicing yoga, or reading a book. This can help signal to your body that it's time to wind down and prepare for sleep. Try to avoid bright lights and limit your use of screens one hour before bedtime.

If possible, take some time during the day to intentionally process your worries and stress. This might include a journaling practice, talking to a friend, or taking a walk without listening to music or podcasts. By taking the time to process your worries during the day, you are less likely to be kept awake at night by anxious thoughts.

What to do when You’re Already in Bed and You Can’t Fall Asleep

1. Try Thought Stopping

Thought stopping is a technique that involves interrupting anxious thoughts to prevent them from spiraling out of control. This technique can help you avoid rumination and reduce the impact of anxious thoughts on your sleep.

To use this technique, start by identifying the anxious thought that is bothering you. When you notice the thought, say "Stop" to yourself or imagine a stop sign in your mind. Remind yourself that you can process this anxious thought during the next day when you are more alert and clear minded. Then, try a breathing exercise or a body scan to distract your mind from returning to the anxious thought. Don’t get frustrated if your mind returns to the anxious thought. You will get better at thought stopping the more frequently you practice.

2. Try a Breathing Exercise

Once you’ve identified and stopped your anxious thoughts you can try a breathing exercise to calm your mind and relax your body. Start by taking ten long deep breaths. Make sure to breathe all the way into your stomach on the inhale and slowly breathe your air out on the exhale. If you lose count and your mind returns to your anxious thought, simply stop the thought and return to your breathing exercise starting back at a count of one. There is no need to count all the way to ten if you become tired and are falling asleep. That is the point! Allow yourself to fall asleep as soon as you feel relaxed.

3. Try a Body Scan

If you’ve tried breathing exercises and you still can’t fall asleep, the next step is to try a body scan.

A body scan is a mindfulness technique that involves paying attention to each part of your body and noticing any sensations you may be feeling. This technique can help you become more grounded in the present moment and distract you from any anxious thoughts.

To do a body scan, start by lying down in a comfortable position. Begin by taking a few deep breaths to help you relax. Then, focus your attention on the top of your head and slowly move your attention down your body, paying attention to each part of your body as you go. Try not to focus on any body part for too long. Just notice the body part and quickly move onto the next. You may have to go through the body scan a few times to feel relaxed enough to fall asleep. Just like the breathing exercise above, it is common to be interrupted by anxious thoughts while doing this exercise. If that is the case, simply stop the thought and return to the body scan. Eventually the mind and body will be relaxed enough to fall asleep.

With practice, thought stopping, breathing exercises, and body scans can become effective tools for managing anxious thoughts. Paired with good daily habits to relax before bed, you should see an improvement on your ability to fall asleep and stay asleep.

If you're struggling with anxiety and it's affecting your sleep, it's important to know that help is available. Don't hesitate to reach out to a therapist who can work with you to develop an effective treatment plan. Therapy can provide a safe and supportive environment to explore and address the root causes of your anxiety, and help you develop coping strategies for managing anxiety and improving sleep. If you're looking for a therapist, consider reaching out to me to schedule a free consultation. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and taking action to improve your mental health and well-being is a crucial step towards living a happier and healthier life.


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